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Blog Post: Reflections on Trauma, War, and Finding Common Ground with US Veterans
Recently, I had the unique and humbling experience of spending time with 20 US war veterans. These men and women carry stories etched deep with trauma, sacrifice, and resilience. Our conversations revealed profound insights about pain, healing, and the complex realities of war.
One of the striking moments was hearing Earl, a Vietnam War veteran who served from 1968 to 1973, describe his night terrors. He wakes up screaming so intensely he loses his voice β a trauma that lingers long after the battlefield has faded. His story was powerful and chilling, a reminder that war wounds arenβt always visible.
Yet, trauma isnβt exclusive to combat. Another participant shared their experience with passing a kidney stone, which they described as more painful than childbirth, compounded by the heartbreak of a breakup. This highlighted how personal battles, though different in nature, can feel just as raw and devastating.
Captain Mike Bradley, a retired US Army officer, put it poignantly: "I'm fighting a war with myself." His words resonated deeply, underscoring that sometimes the hardest battles are the internal onesβmental health struggles, PTSD, and the fight to find peace within.
We joked about what song veterans might have walked out to on the battlefield β imagining everything from Britney Spears to classic anthems. But the truth is stark: thereβs no playlist or wifi in war zones, just comradeship and the harsh realities of conflict.
One veteran bluntly described war as βcheugyβ β a modern slang term meaning outdated or cringe-worthy β equating it to senseless violence and needless noise. This perspective challenges the glorification of war and calls for clearer communication and understanding.
In a candid moment, we discussed what message to send to those who perpetuate violence and terrorize nations. The answer was simple yet profound: stop. We are all part of a global community ("clurb of the world"), and violence only fractures our shared humanity.
Meeting these veterans was both eye-opening and heartwarming. Their stories remind us to honor the sacrifices made, understand the varied forms of trauma, and advocate for peace and empathy. Whether fighting external battles or internal struggles, these heroes continue to inspire resilience and hope.
Thank you to all the veterans who shared their truths. Your voices matter, and your courage does not go unnoticed.
To everyone reading: remember that trauma is complex and personal. Whether on the battlefield or in everyday life, compassion and understanding can bridge divides and heal wounds.